Saturday 18 June 2011

CHANGE YOUR LIFE WITH MORE SELF CONFIDENCE

Of all the attributes needed to succeed, what do you think is most important? Skills? Of course, you need to learn. Hard work? Definitely a help on the road to success. Coincidence? Therefore, it can play a role, not really something you can control. What about links? Again, certainly useful, but not the most important factor.
In fact, it is not the latter.
Its 'self-confidence'. As Henry Ford once said: "If you think you can, you're right, and if you think you can not, you're right."
What is confidence? It is the belief that we are able to do certain things and do them well. If we believe we can "fit" in a social situation, we are more likely to do just that. If we believe we can succeed in our work, there is a good chance. If we believe we are a responsible person with good ideas and strong skills, soon we will inspire others to think so.
Having confidence is not something you are born, and at least most of us are not. This is something we must learn and practice every day of our lives. We need to understand how to assess our level of confidence for us to say whether to help or hinder success. Very little confidence and we fail,if we have to much and we become arrogant.
The first step is to assess the emotions. If you feel that you are always on site and taken advantage of, or be able to do more than you have in life, it's time to learn how to improve self-esteem. Follow these simple tips  and you'll be off to a good start ...
Start with your appearance. Those who seek trust and confidence are seen to act as insurance. Dress comfortably, but properly and with a little style. If you're a jeans and t-shirt person change to chinos and polo shirts.Stand  straight, good posture makes you look good. Change your hair style .Walk with your head held high and have more progress,do not  look down, which makes you look like you are afraid.
Now you are ready to intervene in the interaction. Stop mumbling, instead speak clearly and look into the eyes of the person you are talking to.(Hint: If you have trouble maintaining eye contact, see the bridge of the nose ofthe other person) .Switch from negative to positive comments,especially when it comes to talking about yourself Instead of saying "I do not think I can do this" experiment "This will be a challenge, but I'm ready for this!"
Once you have tried these ways to increase your confidence quickly, keep it up. Every morning you look in the mirror and tell yourself that you look good and that today is going to be a good day. If you do this, you will be happy with your life and you will achieve your goals  before you know it. That's really what being self confident is all about.


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