Monday 2 January 2012

HOW TO GAIN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

Self-Confidence – The Roadblock to Your Ambitions

Do you really want that dream? Do you really want to be your own boss, travel the world, or get that degree? If so, the only problem might be you. Yes, these are harsh words, but when it comes to stopping your dreams and not achieving your ambitions, you are your own worst enemy.
You know how you have to psyche yourself up to get a job done? Sometimes just to do the dishes, you have to convince yourself to do it and that you can get it done without taking all day. That is giving you self-confidence. Without it, the dishes pile up and the work never gets done.
It all comes down to your self-confidence and taking control of your actions. You are the reason that dreams are achieved are never seen. How?
"I Can’t"
Think back on all the times that you thought that you couldn’t do it. It might have been studying for an exam, getting a project done, or simply talking to your boss about time off. It doesn’t have to be something major to be something your self-confidence struggles with. It is anything that you feel that you unable to do.
Tell yourself that you can’t enough times and you begin to believe it. Take an injury your leg. Tell yourself that you will never walk on it again. The result? You never even try to put your weight on it. You never let the therapist work on it. The leg becomes useless. You became the reason that you didn’t walk again.
"I Can’t" is one of the most powerful phrases. That phrase blocks many from their dreams. It is blocking yours. "I can’t go back to school now." "I can’t quit my job." "I can’t go into business for myself." "I can’t see my dreams come true."


Overcome the Roadblock


Thinking that you can’t do something will ensure that you don’t do it. You need to think that you can. This is not always easy. It doesn’t generally come naturally to anyone. Very few can brag about that. You have to work at it. You have to want it.
Shy around men? Want to overcome it and have more self-confidence? You have to tell yourself that you can and then follow through. Keep telling yourself that you can’t do it and you will stay in the shadows and never know what it feels like to be having fun with everyone else.
Do you want it bad enough to go for it? Are you willing to sit around and let the world continue without you? You have to want to develop self-confidence to achieve your life’s ambitions.
Your lack of self-confidence could be the reason that your dreams stay dreams. You’ll stay in a dead end job or never be the entrepreneur that you have dreamed of. Want to live the dream? Want it to become a reality? Get some Confidence.NOW

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THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING

Achieve Your Dreams with Positive Thinking

Everyone has dreams. These dreams float around in your head all the time. They surface when you see a picture, have a tough day, or just want something different in life. Yet, you still go about your daily life thinking that your dreams will never come true. Negative thinking will help make that come true. Positive thinking, on the other hand, helps you achieve your dreams and more.


Grab the Dreams


Winston Churchill once said that ""A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." Seeing how your dreams cannot come true is a pessimistic viewpoint, a self-fulfilling prophecy. Believing that you can grab those dreams and make them real is the power behind positive thinking. Even if something negative happens, the optimist uses it to their advantage because they know that they can conquer it. If you think you can, then you can.
Are you expecting those dreams to fall out of the sky and land in your laps? Are you waiting for everything to fall into place for you to have everything you ever dreamed of? Who has that ever worked for? They might have had some lucky breaks here and there, but everything just did not happen. They had to believe in themselves and believe that they could have their dreams. If they had not, then their dreams would never have been a reality. They took control!
How did Nikola Tesla give the world so much in the way of electricity? He did not sit around and wait for everything to fall into place for him. He knew that he could do it. He believed that he could do it. He threw his entire self into it to bring his dreams to life. He took control!


Taking a Chance


Positive thinking involves taking a chance. You have to believe that you can do it. You have to be willing to step out and do it. Really want to be your own boss and have your own coffee shop? Want to become a bestselling novelist? Want to have your own cooking show? You have to know that you can do it. You have to believe in yourself enough to ignore the naysayers. You have to be willing to break away from job security and tell the world that you can make it and will succeed.
If you want positive results, you have to have positive thinking. They go hand in hand. You have to fully believe that it will happen in order to make it happen. Dreams are the means of inspiring the greatness within. Sitting back and letting them stay dreams denies them the chance to bring about that greatness.
Positive thinking brings about positive results. What are you dreaming of? What future do you want for yourself? What do you want to achieve? Do you believe that you can? Most people don’t. They have to develop the confidence within to achieve those dreams. It is rarely something you are born with, but it is something that is not beyond your reach to develop. You have to take control!
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